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The Family Man

Our Family 1963 - The Family Man

 

As a military family, our family was often fractured because of frequent deployments.  Called TDY (Temporary Duty) in Air Force parlance, my father was gone for months on end and once, he was gone for a year (during the Vietnam War).  And, sometimes, “re-entry” into the family fold after a deployment was a balancing act – a balancing act for us children, of having a father figure again and relearning all that meant and for my mother, a husband who wanted (of course) to take part in and manage our family reinserting himself into his place as “The Family Man” or the man of the family.

So while “re-entry” was at times a delicate dance, these times were further strengthened by my parents love of camping and boating, creating pockets of special bonding times for just our little nuclear family unit.  Often, during our formative years, we would pack up our car full of camping gear, hitch our boat to the back of the car, drive to a nearby lake, load everything into the boat, and search around the lake (my father or mother driving the boat) until we found a small private island.  We’d pitch camp and stay a week or more – just us.

Just us.  Just the six of us.

Camping, boating, water skiing, swimming, cooking and building campfires.  Just us.

This “alone time” as a family created an unbreakable bond, making us a team of 6; a team that knew how to work together, play together, and get things done – together.  Even though my father was often gone during our childhood, these special times were so special they negated the deployments, brought us back together like nothing had ever changed.  This bonding time made us children feel secure, loved, special, and taught us many things – especially about love and family.

My father died last Saturday, January 19, 2013.  This post and others (High Flight, Dance Me to the End of Love, Remembering Grandpa, Perspective:  December 8, 1941) plus future ones this week, are dedicated to him.  Here are pages from a scrapbook from one of those happy times…

Camping - scrapbook pages - The Family Man

Scrapbook camping pages - The Family Man

In mourning for my Father,

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Related Posts:

(other posts about my father)

  • Daddy’s Girl
  • Dance Me to the End of Love
  • HeART and Soul
  • High Flight
  • In the Arms of Love
  • Love Begins at Home
  • Perspective:  December 8, 1941
  • Pictures at an Exhibition
  • Remembering Grandpa
  • Requiem for My Father
  • Sons of My Father
  • Veterans Day 2013

Filed Under: Our Blog, Sweet Life, Sweet Memories Tagged With: dad, grief

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Comments

  1. Anna says

    January 24, 2013 at 6:21 pm

    Thanks for sharing these special memories. This brought tears to my eyes.

    Reply
    • Carole says

      January 24, 2013 at 8:27 pm

      Thanks, Anna, for supporting us during this difficult time.

      Reply
  2. Dawn says

    January 24, 2013 at 5:30 pm

    LOVE, LOVE, LOVE those pictures. What a nice reminder of our family time together.

    Reply
    • Carole says

      January 24, 2013 at 5:53 pm

      Thanks, Dawn. As you know, I’ve been struggling with which pictures to use. Each one elicits a memory and I want to use them all.

      Reply

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I’m Carole, wife to Charlie (25+ years), mom to a boy named Coco, writer, storyteller, home chef, and recipe developer, budding photographer, occasional crafter who loves family and friends, parties and tablescapes, and all things blog. Join me as I COOK, CREATE, INSPIRE.

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